Published by Konstantin Koss on 21 Jun 2008
The Top 10 Ways to Relax
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The body follows what the mind conceives. The condition of the mind often affects how the body performs, which explains why people who are stressed often suffer from accelerated aging and health problems. Unfortunately, with today’s highly frenetic society, stress is something that cannot be completely avoided. However, there are techniques that can help avoid or at least minimize stress. Follow these top 10 ways to relax and give your mind and body a good break.
1. Learn to breathe.
Breathing comes unconsciously, which sometimes encourages us to take it for granted. Several times a day, when you feel stress coming on or you feel tired and unenthusiastic, do a few deep breathing exercises. Here’s how:
Sit or stand with your spine straight and stretched slightly. Then slowly take a breath at a slow count of 3 and exhale just as slowly. Allow your lungs to expand as you take in the air and empty it as you breathe out. If it helps to close your eyes, then do so. Fresh oxygen helps enliven your blood and the slow breathing encourages you to sit or stand still for a moment.
2. Stretch.
Another way you can relax is by slow stretching. Whether you’re standing or seated, make sure to keep your spine straight and allow your arms to dangle loosely at your side. Feet should be flat on the floor and relaxed.
Slowly raise your arms high, as if you’re reaching for the ceiling and slowly raise yourself on the ball of your feet. Follow your hands with your eyes so your head can tilt back. Hold this position for a count of 10 and then slowly bring down your arms.
3. Increase your physical activities.
Or at least start one if you haven’t got any exercise regimen. Contrary to what other people think, exercising actually helps you relax afterwards. It cleanses your body of toxins by inducing sweat, increases your blood flow and the flow of oxygen to the brain and it works up your muscles.
Start slowly and gradually build up until you are able to maintain a regular schedule.
4. Watch your diet.
What you eat affects your mood. Another great way to relax is to maintain a diet that is rich in nutrients, such as antioxidants, folate and omega-3 fatty acids. Eat more fruits and vegetables and when you’re thirsty, grab a bottle of water and keep away from sodas and flavored drinks.
5. Get enough sound sleep.
Sleep is about quality and not just quantity but in times of stress, it’s best to get as much sleep as you can. About 6 to 8 hours should get you the rest you need.
Getting enough sleep is an excellent way to relax. It allows your body to regroup and recover and it eases your mind of other concerns.
6. Use music.
If music works for you, use it. Stick to soft tunes and don’t whip out that Metallica CD just yet. Rock music tends to use heavy bass lines, hard percussions and strong lyrics. If you’re tired and want to relax, turn to easy listening and save those faster tunes for some other time.
7. Turn away from the modern trappings of your life.
Often, some of the most relaxing things are those that are the most basic. Once a week or at least more, turn off the TV, unplug it and keep the remote out of easy reach. Turn off the computer as well.
These two are common sources of distractions. Since they show changing images and plenty of information, they can sometimes overload the mind. Keep things simple and don’t sweat the small, insignificant stuff.
8. Have time to yourself.
A good way to relax is to set aside time for some peace and quiet. What better way to do this than to schedule short vacations for yourself? You don’t have to pack your bags or even leave the house – simply close the door, find a nice, quiet place to sit and enjoy your own company.
9. Try yoga or meditation.
Yoga and meditation helps you attain a good body and mind connection. As a result, you’re more likely to feel relaxed and refreshed. Try simple yoga steps or learn to meditate a few minutes each day. Do these regularly and you’ll find that it will get easier to relax and manage stress later on.
10. Laugh.
Find your sense of humor again. Be with family and friends you can be yourself with. Laughter is one of the best ways to relax and it doesn’t have to cost a thing. It also helps you build connections with people in your life who really matter.
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Pomroy on 22 Jun 2008 at 1:57 pm #
Or smoke weed for some meditation time… Seriously, it helps. And it’s quite safe when used with a vaporizer.
......... on 22 Jun 2008 at 3:03 pm #
really pomroy? cause last time I checked, weed was what we like to call bad, but hey, if your into that stuff, it’s gonna be your funeral…….
Carolin on 22 Jun 2008 at 3:44 pm #
Great list.
I prefer yoga, laughing and sleeping.
But sometimes going for a run is the most effective way for me to stress down.
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Hanehime on 22 Jun 2008 at 5:05 pm #
Masturbation helps too
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Konstantin Koss on 22 Jun 2008 at 5:19 pm #
You guys gave me a laugh with your comments. Thanks for the relaxation
Magnificent on 22 Jun 2008 at 6:16 pm #
Haha, despite what you’ve heard for years, Pomroy is quite right. Vaporizers are the healthiest way to go, but a little marijuana can help you relax without any lasting effects or addiction. Try something new
Nice list, Koss. All of these are great ways to take it easy. Might i suggest hot green tea?
Jenny on 23 Jun 2008 at 12:19 am #
Awesome list. I’m always looking for new ways to relax. These are great.
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remy272 on 26 Jun 2008 at 9:02 pm #
great tips..
do have some tips on how to cool someone when he/she has a bad mood?
Konstantin Koss on 28 Jun 2008 at 6:14 am #
Remy, trying to answer your question I just wrote an entire post in this comment field. I posted it here
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Donna on 09 Nov 2008 at 9:32 am #
When I wanna relax, I will listen to easy music like Jazz and Newage. Taking deep breath really works for me too.